5 Tips To Know If It’s A Hookup

Men, usually, are driven by sex. Not all of them, of course. If they’re looking for a girlfriend, generally they’re not looking for a hook up. But how do you tell?

  1. Does he consider this a date?
  2. Does he text you after 10 PM?
  3. Does he ask where you live and want to meet for drinks near your apartment?
  4. Is he willing to meet you for drinks or dinner before 8:30pm?
  5. Does he tell you what to wear?

Men, the ones purely interested in sex, will want to know what kind of woman you are and what, if anything, you will put up with. There’s nothing wrong with seeing someone purely for sex. I’m not going to judge you or tell you which relationship is right for you. I do want you to know that you, have the power. You set the precedent for any present or future relationship with this person. Everything depends on you and how you want to define your relationship with this particular person.

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